Saturday, October 17, 2009

"whats this"?

No one but Katys friends Josephs son,Eli who is exactly Zak's age has ever commented or asked about Zakary's lip scar. no one for the most part even notices it.
Stan and Zak were in the car waiting for laurel to be done at Kindergarten and he was looking at himself as well kids do. He asked dad as he rubbed his upper lip "whats this"? refering to his lip repair scar. Stan explained in simple terms what it was and the day went on. Later that day and then again this am he has commented on how lucky he is,we have asked him "why"? are you so lucky, he explains that he has this scar and a penis,makes him lucky. a scar cuz its his,he is a bit different and he is so handsome and a penis cuz he can pee standing up and out doors. LOL LOL what children think makes them lucky,huh?? LOL I do havwe pics of him that the orphanage gave us from when they first received him before his cleft lip was repaired that i will show him as he asks more questions, we talked about going to the hospital to have his palate repaired,he remembers that. Its really interesting to me to see how much they want to know but how little they realy want or need to know to keep them happy and content with it all. Not to mention what makes him feel so lucky.
(If he only really knew how lucky he is,his file waas ready to go back to China since no one had shown any interst in adopting him for quite some time, we talked to the agency gal JUST IN TIME,they req that they keep it a short time longer for us to reveiw and then we decided to grab him up, we are all so very lucky.....He may bever have had a family had we not found him right when we did. For this we are so greatful. Thank you thank you Sara Lange.

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